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    I constantly meet guys who basically nag me about not hearing from me enough. It makes me frustrated and makes me call or text them even less. I work 2 jobs where I'm the boss and a lot of people rely on me, I workout everyday, and I live alone so I have to do all the shopping, cleaning, and cooking. I also have my hobbies that I'm into, showing dogs and any boating events. I never have time for a personal life. I barely have time to slow down. I love my busy life. I wouldn't have it any other way. I need to meet someone busy enough to not notice that I don't call them everyday.

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    lol good for you...do your thing and when ya ready too slow down you will and you will certainly make the time needed when you do meet that special one...and right now doesnt seem like the time from what your say and that is ok. Your young and you should do what ya like doing and have fun cause once you do settle down it will be a whole different story so make the most of your youth.

    Originally posted by Qubabe View Post
    I constantly meet guys who basically nag me about not hearing from me enough. It makes me frustrated and makes me call or text them even less. I work 2 jobs where I'm the boss and a lot of people rely on me, I workout everyday, and I live alone so I have to do all the shopping, cleaning, and cooking. I also have my hobbies that I'm into, showing dogs and any boating events. I never have time for a personal life. I barely have time to slow down. I love my busy life. I wouldn't have it any other way. I need to meet someone busy enough to not notice that I don't call them everyday.

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    • #3
      Originally posted by Qubabe View Post
      I constantly meet guys who basically nag me about not hearing from me enough. It makes me frustrated and makes me call or text them even less. I work 2 jobs where I'm the boss and a lot of people rely on me, I workout everyday, and I live alone so I have to do all the shopping, cleaning, and cooking. I also have my hobbies that I'm into, showing dogs and any boating events. I never have time for a personal life. I barely have time to slow down. I love my busy life. I wouldn't have it any other way. I need to meet someone busy enough to not notice that I don't call them everyday.

      How did you spend Valentine's Day?


      -Boss

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      • #4
        Originally posted by lil mama View Post
        lol good for you...do your thing and when ya ready too slow down you will and you will certainly make the time needed when you do meet that special one...and right now doesnt seem like the time from what your say and that is ok. Your young and you should do what ya like doing and have fun cause once you do settle down it will be a whole different story so make the most of your youth.
        Thank you!! My Mom says if he's the right guy I will make the time for whomever it is. Sometimes I wonder if I push away or close off Mr Right before I even know it.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by BIG BOSS !! View Post
          How did you spend Valentine's Day?


          -Boss

          I got up at 5am and ran 5 miles, took care of my dogs and horses, then taught 2 boot camp classes, I sat down with another client went over her new diet plan, took a nap, then worked at my training facility from 1-9pm I drove home, cooked my meals for today, and went to bed. Even when I was in relationships VDay wasn't important to me. I never thought that one day should be any different on how much you loved and cared about someone. I believe in the little things. If you brought me flowers on a day I wouldn't expect them that would mean so much more than on a day that all women get them.

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          • #6
            I doubt it cause your Mr.Right would stop you dead in your tracks...no if's and's about it.

            Originally posted by Qubabe View Post
            Thank you!! My Mom says if he's the right guy I will make the time for whomever it is. Sometimes I wonder if I push away or close off Mr Right before I even know it.

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            • #7
              u can easily miss the right guy with a lifestyle like that. a guy that wants attention from you means he cares and wants more from you. if you not willing to give it, then he will move on to a woman who will give him the attention he wants/deserves. when i met my girl, i knew i wanted a real relationship that would lead to marriage, if she was the right one. if she treated me like you mentioned, i wouldve moved on very quickly. luckily she didnt, we quickly fell in love and are looking forward to getting married and having kids. which we both agreed on about 3 months into it! from a guys perspective, your a hook up chick. not a chick to settle down with. good luck

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              • #8
                p.s. if you dont get to know a guy, you wont know if he's "mr. right"

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Kenny_1979 View Post
                  u can easily miss the right guy with a lifestyle like that. a guy that wants attention from you means he cares and wants more from you. if you not willing to give it, then he will move on to a woman who will give him the attention he wants/deserves. when i met my girl, i knew i wanted a real relationship that would lead to marriage, if she was the right one. if she treated me like you mentioned, i wouldve moved on very quickly. luckily she didnt, we quickly fell in love and are looking forward to getting married and having kids. which we both agreed on about 3 months into it! from a guys perspective, your a hook up chick. not a chick to settle down with. good luck

                  I don't give my attention to whiny low self esteem needy guys without lives. I have a life that I need to live. You are the first guy to tell me I'm a "hook up chic not a chic to settle down with" I always get "wow you would make a great wife". You have a right to your opinion though..of course it doesn't amount to much. My Mr Right is out there. He's that guy that has goals, is hardworking, and doesn't have time to worry that I'm not calling him 10 times a day. He certainly doesn't give a girl a hard time for not doing it. I mean, really, be a man not a bitch...lol

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                  • #10
                    Guys are going to want a lot of attention from you. Ugly women..not so much but people change. Some person you didn't like before or a personality trait you didn't care for in the past can do a 360 turn on you. There's no doubt you will find someone you appreciate.

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                    • #11
                      Don't worry about stuff like that Amanda. The right guy will come when you least expect it. I'm sorry your previous relationship did not work out. I remember you spent a lot on the guy..........

                      I respect the work ethic you have. Keep up the good work.

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by ibarramedia View Post
                        Don't worry about stuff like that Amanda. The right guy will come when you least expect it. I'm sorry your previous relationship did not work out. I remember you spent a lot on the guy..........

                        I respect the work ethic you have. Keep up the good work.
                        Thank you! Honestly I just wanted to see if any girls here who have lives like mine had the same problem in the dating scene. Maybe I'm the only one that is single and still looking for my Mr Right.

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by Qubabe View Post
                          Thank you! Honestly I just wanted to see if any girls here who have lives like mine had the same problem in the dating scene. Maybe I'm the only one that is single and still looking for my Mr Right.
                          I'm married, so can't really speak to this. What I CAN say is that my training schedule does cause problems. I am competitive to a fault, and racing both on the bike and doing some multi-sport this year. Naturally I am in the pool, in the weight room, on the indoor trainer, or running on the road....A LOT! My husband rides, but multisport is like watching grass grow for him. He finds that my training schedule is intrusive into our relationship, regardless of how early I get up to train, and how often I try to get my doubles in before I come home at night. There have been multiple discussions about this. I understand his point of view in that he wants to "see me more", but I also need to be true to myself and know that I am doing what I am doing because I love it. It's a constant balancing act.
                          SnakeBite Racing

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                          • #14
                            Relationships are never easy, they all take sacrifice. Sometimes we are ready for them and sometimes we are not (regardless of the actual decisions we make to get into them ) Just compromise the best you can and hope for the best. If a relationship is that important to you, then the sacrifices will come.
                            Try not to let hurdles hold you down because they will always be there.

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                            • #15
                              i think that is my problem.. i constantly get on my ex gf for not getting back to me or keeping in touch as much, i have to resuperalize that she is busy and i shouldnt get upset.. but when i dont get back to her right away she gets upset so i dont think its fair to have that "double standard" ya know?

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